February 2010
6 posts
No se que sentir, no se que pensar
They had been broken up for over year. But after dating for 11 years and knowing each other even longer, they had become best friends. They no longer shared the same dreams, the same bed, the same space, but they were still joined by time and countless memories. She had stopped hanging out with him as friends because of me. It wasn’t fair to me, she thought, if she still went out with the...
Joseph (man one)
Now that I think about it, I’ve had my heart broken by three men. Joseph was my best friend in college, my brother of choosing, a soul mate! He started dating an ex girlfriend of mine. Early on she made the mistake of telling him “Ernest is who I want, you are who I deserve.”. The friendship between the three of us quickly fell apart. It was only a matter of time before he...
The meaning of life...is not
The meaning of life is not work. The meaning of life NOT money! Life is not about correcting your mistakes… because you can’t. You can opt not to make the same mistakes, but you can’t correct the misteps you’ve taken. You can’t undo hurt; you can’t undo pain; and you can’t save millions to make up for the one you’ve taken. Life is not about...
Debbie
I saw my ex at the dogpark today. It was actually really nice to see Cayla and the dogs. Cayla gave me a big hug, which I returned. Amidst the falling out of love with Deb and her dating a man that treats her really well, I miss Cayla and Copper. I didn’t know how much till today.
Que paso con Kati
Not sure why I fell out of love so quickly. My friend Chris tells me that it’s because my initial idea was not based on reality…and he’s right. She ended up not being who I thought she was because I imagined great things that were just not part of her.
